Getting Drunk At Weddings?

It really all depends on your situation. My fiancee is 22 and I am 21, so I really don't think it would be appropriate to have an open bar. I have seen how his friends act while highly intoxicated, and I don't want that at my wedding. Granted, they are going to get drunk either way but I know people will get more drunk if there is an open bar. People tend to take advantage of that sort of thing. I am not shunning them, but I think it depends on where you are and the age group you are in.